National Truth & Reconciliation Day
My name is Korah De Walt-Gagnon, and I am an inter generational residential school survivor, a member of the Tk’emlups te Secwepemc, and a mother to 3 beautiful children. As an Indigenous woman, National Truth and Reconciliation Day holds a profound significance in my life. It's a day when I reflect on my personal journey from shame and self-doubt to embracing my cultural heritage with pride. It's also a day when I'm reminded of the critical work ahead – educating others to break down bias and misconceptions, ultimately striving for a stronger and more united future for all Canadians because #everychildmatters.
Growing up as an Indigenous girl, I carried a heavy burden of shame. I felt the weight of stereotypes and misconceptions that surrounded my culture. The derogatory labels and misconceived notions about my people cast a dark cloud over my self-esteem and identity. It was as if society expected me to conform to a distorted image of who I should be rather than embracing my true heritage. As a child, I learned that saying I lived down the road from one development in the city was more accepted by adults than saying I lived on the reserve. My skin colour is pale, so I had the privilege of not being stereotyped by the colour of the skin, however, when others found out, I found children made fun of the Indigenous culture and adults passed judgements or assumptions were made.
National Truth and Reconciliation Day, established to honour the survivors of residential schools and acknowledge the deep-seated trauma inflicted upon Indigenous communities, represents a turning point in my life. It's a day of reflection, remembrance, and, most importantly, a day of healing. As I began to learn more about the history and impact of residential schools, it was impossible to ignore the scale of the injustice done to Indigenous peoples. The pain of those who suffered in silence for generations was a painful revelation, but it also ignited a fire within me – a determination to reclaim my heritage and help others understand the truth.
My journey from shame to acceptance was not easy, but it was necessary. It began with a female workshop, one where I allowed myself to be vulnerable with my shame during a breakout activity. Through that experience I left knowing that I can be Indigenous, I can be female, and I can work in the mining industry, but I am enough. Acknowledging the beauty and resilience of my culture and finding strength in the traditions and stories passed down through generations. Healing came as I embraced who I am and showed up as my authentic self.
Breaking down bias and misconceptions is a crucial part of the reconciliation process. To foster understanding and unity, I've taken it upon myself to educate others about Indigenous culture and history. This involves challenging stereotypes, dispelling myths, and engaging in open and honest conversations. It’s important to remember that ignorance breeds prejudice, and prejudice perpetuates injustice. By sharing our stories and our truths, we can dismantle the walls of misunderstanding that have separated Indigenous and non-Indigenous peoples for far too long. Education is a bridge to empathy, compassion, and ultimately, reconciliation.
National Truth and Reconciliation Day is not just about remembering the past; it's about shaping our future. As Indigenous people, we have a rich cultural heritage to share, and as Canadians, we have a responsibility to listen and learn. By coming together, acknowledging the pain of the past, and actively working to bridge divides, we can build a stronger, more inclusive, and more united Canada. The path to reconciliation is not without its challenges, but it's a path worth walking, hand in hand, towards a brighter and more harmonious future.
National Truth and Reconciliation Day represents a pivotal moment in my journey from shame to pride, from self-doubt to self-acceptance. It's a day that reminds me of the power of education, understanding, and unity in breaking down bias and misconceptions. Together, as Indigenous and non-Indigenous Canadians, we can build a stronger future rooted in truth, reconciliation, and respect for all.
What can you do? Many Indigenous people are using their voices and sharing their stories, take the time to register for courses, seminars, and workshops. Support them in their own personal healing journey, while also embarking on your journey of reconciliation.
